好文共賞..您孩子的需要 !

   

  Needs of your child -- 作者 ： Ms. Lam

 

I need an environment that allows me o grow thus I feel fulfilled.

  I need to do things by myself thus I understand.

  I need to solve my own problems thus I learn to be responsible.

  I need to be taught right from wrong thus I learn to become a member of my culture.

  I need to stay away from the spotlight thus I am able to stay on to my own focus.

  I need the liberty to learn without the pressure of probing what have I learned thus   to keep the fire of learning rolling.

  I need to be told a plain”No” when I can not be reasoned thus I realize my boundaries and limitations.

  I need you to stand by me when I am in despair thus I know someone is there for me.

  I need your complete trust in me thus I possess the courage to take on new venture.

  I need your respect that I am the master of myself thus I learn the value of respect of others.

  I need you to model love, honesty, and integrity thus I shall become the man of hope.

  I need you to acknowledge that I was born with a mission thus I am able to pursue and become the person who I shall be.

If all my needs are met ； I may not win as a starter, but I will not give up in the middle and shall persist to the end with all the strength and determination.

 

   

  您孩子的需要

 

我需要一個可以使我成長的環境 ， 如此 ，我才能獲得學習及心靈上的滿足。

  我需要親自嘗試，如此，我才能理解。

  我需要自己解決問題，如此，我才能學習如何負責任。

  我需要被教導什麼是對與錯誤，如此，我才能成為有教養的人。

  我不需要過多的注目與讚美，如此，我才能專注我自己的事。

  我需要在沒有壓力下自由的學習，如此，我才能保有持續學習的興趣。

  我需要在我行為不可理喻時，旁邊有人明確的告訴我 ”不行”，如此，我才能瞭解自己行為上的界線與限制。

  我需要在我沮喪時，你就在我身邊，如此，我知道有人一值在支持著我。

  我需要你的信任，如此，我才有勇氣去探索新的世界。

  我需要你尊重我做我自己的主人，如此，我才能學習如何尊重別人。

  我需要你成為我在愛、誠實、正直行為上的模範，如此，我才能成為有 ”希望”的人。

  我需要你肯定我與生據來的使命，如此，我才能夠追求成為我該成為的人。

當我擁有這些需要時，我未必會在起跑點上贏得勝利，但我不會在中途放棄，且將以堅定的信念及毅力堅持到最後。